What are the significant qualities,
intentions, implications and significance of happiness in our lives?
Why being happy is better that
being un-happy?
One's
state of happiness or unhappiness colors everything in
our lives.
So, What is the meaning of
happiness?
People who are happy
perceive the world as safer, feel more confidents, make decisions more
easily, rate job applicants more favorably, are more cooperative and
tolerant, and live a more healthier and more energized and satisfied lives.
(Pressman & Cohen's study, 2005)
When your mood is gloomy
and your thinking preoccupied, life as a whole seems depressing and
meaningless.
People has a great tendency
to be helpful when in a good mode. This has been called by psychologists
the: feel-good, do-good phenomena. In study after study, a
mood-boosting experience has made people more likely to give money, pick up
someone's dropped papers, volunteer more time, and do other good deeds as
random act of kindness.
Happiness
doesn't just feel good, it does good.
The happier you are your
mood brighten, your thinking broadens and become more playful and creative,
notably increasing your "ability to survive" by being more able to solve
problems easier.
The meaning of happiness?
It does good.
In one study
(Harker & Keltner, 2001),
which surveyed thousands of college students in 1976 and restudied them at
age 37, happy students had gone on to earn significant more money than their
less happy peers.
John Cacioppo and his
collaborators (2008)
noted that more happiness produced greater income. Today's happiness
predicted tomorrow's income better than today's income predicted tomorrow's
happiness.
Which matches other studies
showing though buying power has almost tripled since 1950s, average American
citizens reported happiness has remain almost unchanged.
(National opinion Research Center)
Individual's happiness not only has an inherent value but have positive
spillover benefits for the society as a whole.
Happiness
is an indicator of our survival potential.
The
Goal of Life can be considered to be infinite survival.
Man, as a life form, can be demonstrated to obey in all his actions the one
command: Survive!
In previous pages we
defined the
purpose of life
as the eternal creation of new realities
and experiences, in order to fulfill its goal of infinite survival.
It is not a new thought
that man is surviving, It is a new perspective that man is motivated only
by survival. This does not mean that every attempt to survive is successful.
Man has to have a very
powerful creative power to solve problems of survival caused by environment,
mutations, and many other things that work against this survival impulse.
There are no existing life
forms which lack solution to these problems developing abilities which not
always are successful.
This drive through
existence for survival is dynamic and changing. We call this urge to survive,
this survival potential:
"life-impulse."
The meaning of happiness?
It indicates our ability to survive!
As this life impulse is cut
back or affected by other influences - other people and the regular
suppressors of life, such as the absence of food, clothing and shelter, this
impulse can become more and more weak until is headed toward death, or
succumb, exactly in the opposite direction that it should go.
A close analysis of this
life-impulse reveals that there are actually eight directions or
eight manifestations of this basic thrust to
survive.
First
life-impulse:
is the urge toward
survival as one's self. It is the impulse to attain the highest
level of survival for the longest possible time of our individual
self.
Second
life-impulse:
is the urge toward
existence as a future generation with includes sexuality and our
children.
Third
life-impulse:
is the urge of survive
as a group, with the individual himself furnishing this motivation.
Any group is part of this third life impulse.
Fourth
life-impulse:
is survival through man
as a species. All races of man (groups) can be considered together
the fourth survival impulse.
Fifth
life-impulse:
is represented by the
urge to survive as any and all living things, whether animal,
vegetable, anything directly motivated by life.
Sixth
life-impulse:
is the urge toward
existence of the physical universe, as a whole, as matter and
energy.
Seventh life-impulse:
is
the urge toward existence as spiritual entity, separated from the
physical universe and as the source of life itself.
Eighth
life-impulse:
is the urge toward
existence as the Infinite, Divine and Eternal.
When a person has a very
low level of happiness her life-impulse
is only centered in the first area: survival of self.
As the level of happiness
increases the person concerns goes toward the second area: family and
children, then works on the third level: survival as a group, after that:
for all mankind, and so on.
When a person has increased
her emotional frequency to the highest levels of happiness his concern
points toward the whole infinite and eternal existence of All-That-Is.
Infinite Survival; this is the
meaning of happiness.
Those highest states of
happiness correspond to the highest states of consciousness, usually
referred to as: Enlightenment, Nirvana, Krist Consciousness, etc.
Eric Fromm said it well: "Happiness
is the criterion of excellence in the art of living."
The
happier one is, the better for everybody else!
This is
the meaning of happiness.
The higher our level of
happiness the more useful we become for ourselves, for our family, for our
group, for mankind, for all living things, and for the universe in its
totality. This is the meaning of happiness.
It's
not that you have to become enlightened to do the right things. It's all the
way around. Turn your light on so you can clearly see what are the right
things to do!
Increase you emotional
energy frequency and your abilities to survive will soar.